This article explores the concept of 'doing nothing' as a parenting strategy, advocating for allowing children to experience social discomfort to build resilience. Drawing on insights from a viral TikTok and research, it emphasizes the importance of parental presence and empathy over immediate intervention when children face social challenges. The piece offers practical advice for validating emotions and asking gentle questions, highlighting how this approach fosters independent problem-solving and long-term social competence in children.